Friday, August 30, 2013

Reminder!

This site will come offline on Saturday, August 31st, so be sure to bookmark the new blog for my continued adventures (this time on the West Coast) found at sterlingsuite.blogspot.com

xoxo

Sunday, July 28, 2013

That's A Wrap

UPDATE: New blog site changed to sterlingsuite.blogspot.com !

Officially out of New York City, officially settled into Riverside (dear God only temporarily, I pray). I had SUCH A BLAST on my road trip home, I am so happy it didn't happen any other way. Well, I wish Jayna could have come all the way to California, but they don't call it Game of Roads for nothing! It was not only such a great adventure, but also a great transition to the move from coast to coast. Next time I go out there, maybe I'll do the drive again and take the northern route.

New York is done. All the moving, subway waits, Metrocard refills, train rides with groceries I can't carry, day-long excursions to Target... all done. All the summertime bedbug scares, grossly overpriced everything in Manhattan, springboard diving, dripping humidity, and fight-to-the-death competition for resources for things as simple as a seat in Starbucks... all done! The fear of having a heart attack in the city and dying on the way to the hospital cause the ambulance is stuck in traffic in midtown... all done! To be fair, I'm equally scared of a heart attack now that I don't have a full time job with benefits, ha! Let's do a short recap of some of the things I got to do the past few years while living on the East Coast:

-Explored all 5 boroughs for culture, fun and adventure
-Day trips upstate along the Hudson, on Long Island, in New Jersey, weekends in Poughkeepsie
-Fourth of July on Cape Cod
-Road trip from New York to Niagara Falls and Toronto
-Saturday Night Live taping
-Saw the Yankees, Mets, Knicks and Nets play
-Got to watch the NY Giants win the Superbowl while in New York
-Frequent visits to/from friends in Boston, Philadelphia, Baltimore/DC
-Got to visit Orchard House, the home of Louisa May Alcott and Little Women outside of Boston
-Ran my first race on the Coney Island boardwalk
-Survived two hurricanes
-Road trip from Baltimore to the Outer Banks of North Carolina for Memorial Day Weekend
-Saw the New York City Philharmonic play in Central Park
-Saw Chicago, Memphis, Alice in Wonderland and Once play on Broadway
-Listened to two September 11th survivors speak
-Went to the US Open twice
-Got to go to the Michael Jackson birthday party in Brooklyn
-Had my writing performed by a professional actress in the Lower East Side
-Road tripped to New Hampshire and Maine
-Spent a long Thanksgiving weekend in Montreal
-Got to be active with intensive ballet classes, a volleyball league and a springboard diving team
-Spent New Year's Eve at a warehouse party in Brooklyn
-Spent Halloween at a rooftop party in Brooklyn, and a booze cruise on the East River
-Celebrated Santacon two years in a row, yeesh
-Fourth of July in the Hamptons
-Ran into Will Smith (literally) in front of the Mandarin Oriental hotel
-Met Michael Douglas at a UCSB alumni party in midtown
-Had snow days in Central Park with 11 inches of snow
-Organized a team for NYC AIDS Walk (haha)
-Volunteered for the Vendy's on Governor's Island
-Got hit by a car walking to the train
-Drove countless times in the city, and even reached out my window and slapped the hood of a cab that was being too aggressive (he backed off after that, by the way)
-Got to see The Colbert Report three times, and even shake Stephen's hand (ahhhh!)
-Joined a trivia league, took Arabic lessons, joined an ASL discussion group
-Had Breakfast at Tiffany's once. Also, Dinner at Tiffany's once.
-Had a week in Florida including a road trip through Ft Lauderdale, Miami, the keys to Key West
-Saw Tom Petty perform at the Beacon theatre. And countless other small shows around the city
-Watched the Stephen Siller's Tunnel to Towers 9/11 Memorial Run/Race
-Went back to school at Columbia University
-Water tubing in West Virginia
-Saw the lighting of the world's largest menorah
-Watched Fred Armisen and Carrie Brownstein speak over Portlandia
-Watched Election Day countdown and coverage for the 2012 Presidential Election in Times Square
-Road tripped to Amish country in Pennsylvania
-Visited more bars, clubs and restaurants than I could ever name!
-And everything inbetween that made living in New York City so fun and fascinating!

Long live my New York City life
May 16, 2010 - July 13, 2013

Most people are interested to hear about how I am adjusting to California: Do I feel different? Do I regret leaving New York? Here are some of those answers:

1. I don't feel different at all. It doesn't even feel weird to live at home right now. It just... is what it is. I don't really see California or the world the same as when I left, but that's kinda true every time you take a trip or live somewhere new I guess, and that has actually made me love being home all the more. And I'm very thankful for all the places I've seen and friends I've made, and I'm already looking forward to their visits! If anything, I just feel exponentially more free, and alive, and like I can breathe and live again.

2. My biggest fear before leaving was probably that I would regret doing it. I worried that I was just in a down-time with New York, and would immediately wish that I was back there, which would be a very difficult decision to reverse. However, there is not one single shred of me that regrets leaving. As a matter of fact, as I was driving away, I was more upset that I wasn't upset at all. I kept thinking "didn't these past years mean anything to me?!" Of course they did, but my life needed more room to breathe, and living there much longer in my state sounded suffocating. New York City is New York City... it's fabulous and fun and I will always love visiting there. But every time I read about it, see a picture of it... there is literally nothing in my heart or soul that stirs... no nostalgia, no wishful thinking, no sadness. That is not to say that I didn't love my years there. I'm very thankful I had those years and experience and have all the memories I do. A New York native once said to me "New York City will put a mirror up to your bare soul" which I thought was pretty accurate. That is to say, you are forced to confront who and what you are, and I think that my time there sucked a lot of poison out of my life, and after my time there, I feel a changed person, for the better, and isn't that always the point?

Of course, this transition has already been interesting. What am I doing and what am I going to do? I still don't know, but I am investing in a few different routes for now, and we will see what comes of it all.

So what's going to happen to my blog? This was all started on the premise of living in New York City, and since I don't anymore, I've decided to end it here. It will officially be taken offline on August 31, 2013. But wait! There's good news! Since I have become so accustomed to sharing my life stories (and have had such great feedback from you all) I have decided to start a new one chronicling this new journey... so bookmark the page now: sterlingsuite.blogspot.com! The site will go live on August 1, 2013 (this Thursday)!

Thank you everyone for all your support and help and friendship for these past few years while I was so far away. I would like to leave this with the words of Lana del Rey:

The road is long, we carry on, try to have fun in the meantime.

Monday, July 22, 2013

CALIFORNIA

Got home on Saturday afternoon and it has really taken me this long to muster up the energy to do anything, really, including updating to say that I'm home safe and sound!

The last leg of the trip was fairly uneventful given that I've done that LA - Phoenix drive more than a few times, and was just in Coachella Valley a few weeks ago, but still I do love seeing the desert! My dad and I were out of the hotel by around 9a, stopped for a Starbucks, and then took that Interstate 10-West all the way home! (Fun fact: I'd been on and off the I-10 W since New Orleans!)

There was no California rest stop with a nice welcome sign (rude! who can I write to about that, by the way?) but we did get the faded poppy sign, and then got DEL TACO!! That's how you know I'm home! And then the fuel light came on somewhere inbetween Blythe and Indio, and let me tell you, that was a scary drive, although Coachella popped up before Indio and saved the day... relatively speaking, because somehow or other gas shot up to $4.13, where in the rest of the country it had been about $3.50. That hurt. And then we drove into some weird rain storm. But I made it!

Desert sites in Arizona, that just didn't look as good on the phone

There wasn't even anyone in any of the booths, but at least we got a picture

"Thanks" California....... forrrrr nuthin! Have you seen the welcome signs of the other states??

Coming out of the desert you can see the greener valley below, which represents civilization!

A sign for Los Angeles. Coast to coast!

Oh and in Atlanta, Jayna and I fulfilled her dream of making a karaoke cd, and you can all experience the magic here!

New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware, Maryland, Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona and California! Sixteen states, three passengers and 3,087 miles later, here I am! For the record, I could have kept going. Give me that rental car back and I would have went straight up to Montana or taken the northern loop right back to the East Coast and come around again. I loved it!  But, now to settle in and figure out what I'm going to do and what is going on in life. Womp womp!

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Phoenix, Arizona

Woke up in The Valley of the Sun today and I am feeling every degree! I can't complain though because I love the desert and this dry heat!

We were on the road from El Paso by 9a, blazed through Las Cruces, and all of New Mexico, actually, enough to cross into Arizona and take a quick jaunt off the beaten path to visit Tombstone, Arizona. We walked around, took in a gunfight show (only in 'murica!) and then had lunch at Big Nose Kate's Saloon. A few hours later we were in Phoenix and checked into a great Hilton property with water slides and pools. We were able to swim before getting dinner and collapsing in the room.

Crossed into the Land of Enchantment

Such a friendly welcome from a friendly state!

Arizona/New Mexico State Line off the Interstate 10 West

Arizona was the first state I saw whose welcome center didn't have a "Welcome to ______" sign! So depressing! Good thing my dad was able to get the picture out the window of the state line!

Downtown Tombstone, Arizona

Looks like the Wells Fargo mascot to me! In Tombstone

Gunfight!

Gunfight in Tombstone

Inside Big Nose Kate's Saloon... she was Doc Holliday's girlfriend... (?)

Beautiful desert view out in Arizona

The view from our hotel room

Beautiful sky and sunset in Phoenix!
And now, this is it! The home stretch, Game of Roads coming to a close, bringin' her on home... but I don't want the adventure to end!

Friday, July 19, 2013

El Paso, Texas

As you can see from the title, my dad and I made it to El Paso. I was out of Doug's place in San Antonio pretty early since he had to work and I had 8 hours to drive anyway, so I was downtown by 9:30. My dad and I went into the city center to visit the Alamo and see the Riverwalk (well, getting a Starbucks was really the mission) before we got on the road.

The trees and swamps of the east were gone, and slowly replaced by the flat farm lands, into the deserty wastelands that endlessly went on and brought us into El Paso 8 hours later. My energy wains more and more every day, and after getting to the Double Tree hotel, I immediately fell asleep on the bed for a few hours, and didn't leave for dinner until I woke up, after 8p. After dinner in the hotel restaurant, we took a small walk around the historic El Paso downtown, and then into the Camino Real Hotel and had a last drink at some historic dome bar.

The Alamo!

A view from downtown San Antonio

Western Texas. This was the most life I saw for hours

Downtown El Paso, you can kinda see the writing on the mountain on the Ciudad Juarez side

A very pushy sidewalk sign at the crosswalk

Downtown El Paso

Under the dome at the Dome Bar

The Plaza Theatre in El Paso

Another early start, and we plan to spend tonight in Phoenix.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

San Antonio, Texas

Nothing like waking up on a couch in San Antonio! How did I get here, you ask? Let me tell you.

Jayna and I had a pretty nice long day in Austin. We had a later check-out time than usual and got to relax a little more, and had basically all day in the city. After checking out of the hotel, we dropped our stuff off at the car and Jayna came up with a battle plan on our city map. By the end of the day we had traversed that whole place. Down to the Colorado River, up the Congress Street area, around the State Capitol Building, and eating in the Red River District. We were trying to make it to Franklin BBQ, a place we had heard a lot about. They warned that sometimes they sell out of brisket and to get there early, but they didn't tell us that there was also danger of selling out of ALL FOOD. Literally the place was just sold out of food by the time we got there, so we had to find somewhere else to eat. We walked a few more blocks and ate at a Tex-Mex Cantina and our waitress told us about the Barton natural springs on the other side of the river, and we had every intention of going but actually ended up caught in a huge freak thunderstorm and couldn't escape before it was time to get to the airport.

I dropped Jayna off at the Austin airport for her flight back to Raleigh. It was the end of an era. The car was immediately quiet and the trip definitely felt different. I was happy I only had a 2 hour drive to San Antonio to see Doug, a friend from San Diego who is here for a six-month internship.

Just along the Colorado, a small view of a side of the Austin skyline

Bet you didn't know Whole Foods is from Austin... and here's the flagship store!

The Texas State Capitol Building

The Driskill Hotel on Brazos St, apparently it's something of a big deal
When I got to Doug's we took off for some Texas BBQ at what I later learned was a chain restaurant, called Rudy's, but it was just great. Firewood and meat by the pound, I got a quarter pound of sliced brisket, dill pickles, potato salad, and a Texas beer. We sat outside long into the night under the string of lights and got to enjoy the warm summer air and just talk and catch up.

Om nom nom!
When I was clearing my tray, a worker came to help me since he was on that trash can anyway. I took my beer bottle off and asked if they recycled, wondering if I should toss it somewhere else. The look he gave me was half-disgust and half-"Where did you come from, hippie?" and I couldn't be too surprised... Texas sure never lets you forget where you are! Well sir, this hippie is on her way back to California! Today I'll pick up my dad from his hotel in San Antonio and we'll power through to El Paso or Las Cruces, New Mexico tonight. Getting closer... which makes me both sad and glad.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Austin, Texas

Wellllllp, Jayna and I woke up in Austin, Texas, this morning, and let me tell you: while Austin is a neat little place on it's own, it definitely got the short end of the stick having to follow up an act from New Orleans. WHAT. A. FABULOUS. PLACE. It was everything that I dreamed it would be, and more. Jayna and I were constantly amazed at how adorable that place was.

We checked out of the hotel and walked around for a good four hours. We visited Louis Armstrong park, walked around the French Quarter, went to the waterfront of the Mississippi River, had coffee and beignets at Cafe du Monde, visited the French Market and had gumbo and jambalaya at an outdoor cafe with a live band. Every single corner of the city seemed so photogenic, and it was so hard to leave! We both wanted to stay another day or two. Leaving was pretty interesting though, because the marshes and swampland was immediately outside the city and really crazy to see!

Hoursssss later we entered into Texas and boy howdy it was prettyyyyy obvious. We pulled into a gas station just across the Louisiana / Texas border and inside was a bunch of men smoking and talking about their guns. I knew I was a looooong way from New York City! Next was a quick stop in Houston to visit the massive Waterwall (pretty impressive!) and dinner, before spending a long time on a very deserted highway into Austin!

We parked, checked into the hotel, then immediately walked around the corner from the Driskill onto Sixth Street and got time to not only take in a few round of drinks ($5 for TWO Uncle Carls!!) but even get a party on the dance floor! Sixth Street was pretty lively and reminded me a lotttttt of San Diego's Gaslamp, although very collegey considering UT Austin is right down the road, and apparently they stick around for the summer!

Inside Louis Armstrong Park. A lot of it was even underwater, but it was very pleasant!

Jayna and Louis Armstrong

We had seen this from a distance at night, it looks much better lit up!

Just another beautiful front in the French Quarter

A parked bike still covered in Mardi Gras beads in French Quarter

Riverwalk along the Mississippi

A view of the Mississippi

Tiles in front of City Hall (I think?) that talk about the names of these places while under Spanish rule

Beignets and coffee!

Live music in the French Market over lunch

Swamps!

Jayna fits right into Texas!

Everything's bigger in Texas!

Houston skyline!

The Waterwall in Houston! Probably would have been better during the day, but still cool to see

The view from our hostel in Austin

Sixth Street in Austin

Inside our first bar with Uncle Carl's

Along Sixth Street after most bars closed and we heading back

Every morning I seem to wake with a little less base energy than the day before, and even though I've been sleeping very well on this whole trip, it sure is starting to catch up with me. Still, looking forward to the rest of the adventure!